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DISTANT RELATIONSHIP

Quest for better living sometimes leave us a little apart from our spouses. The truth lies in the fact that we spoil so many things than build. What is a long distant relationship? The fact that your partner travelled for a month doesn't make it long distant. And the fact he stays in Lagos and you in Abuja doesn't make it long distant. The reality is the time you spend apart. Sometimes bank workers and construction workers keep long distant relationships without knowing it. There is one thing about being in a relationship and dealing with the normal problems in person, but it’s something else entirely when there is distance between you two. Most of your problems will not occur because of normal boyfriend/girlfriend issues. The fact that you guys can’t see each other often will prove to be a problem. Most of the time, your arguments will deal with distance rather than real relationship issues. This will prove to be taxing on the mind and it is extra stress that can be avoided...

ANOTHER FIVE ESSENTIAL QUALITIES

Don’t fool yourself things would improve after marriage; many people carry a lot of baggage from their relationships into marriage. The expectations would be cut short with extreme misbehaviors and you wonder if you married the same woman. People have this need to change the other person into the type of person they think would be right for them. Marriage changes everything. Do not fool yourself into thinking that you can change her, or diminish this trait, rather you change for your woman.  Sincerely, relativity comes to play when we talk about a valued practice as great as marriage. Thus this writing is predominantly thinking about an African marriage. What are the traits a lady must possess for her to be the right one. Wolfax diaries went all out again gathering all the information to know the mind of men about settling down with the right person. We filtered the wrongly impressed opinions of some who believe a lady should be a sex tool or others that believe she is ...

FIVE ESSENTIAL QUALITIES

FIVE ESSENTIAL QUALITIES From the creation of the world man had existed. Different era had produced different traits. But in our dispensation we need to know how to handle our relationships so that we have a generation we planned to come. Procreation is a function of a man and a woman. And one of the duties of men is the approach. Although some are so shy they hide under some excuses waiting for the woman to walk up to them ………. I wish I was a lady; you’ll die single. And for those who approach; they might just be lions in sheep clothing. There are essential qualities one has to look for in a man to know if he could be the one to usher you into the promised land of marriage . Wolfax diaries have done its research and conclusively come to this juncture. The following are our findings: ·          Honesty : honesty is a trait so uncommon in the world we live in today. Both men and women live in dishonesty but the guy who says the truth a...

BUNNIES BY MARY ANNE ALABI

MARY ANNE ALABI There was a garden called Eden, a garden of the Lord. Here lives Adam and Eve in the olden days. A period there was no civilization. A period with no electricity and machines; a period with no perfume or aftershave, a period with no FASHION TV or E channel; it was a blind period. This period witnessed a transformation; a revelation, and the call for covering were made after she ate the apple. Clothes are more than coverings, they are cultural. From the Baro’t Saya styles of the Philippines, to the hakama and yukata of the Japanese, the feathered headgears and kaftan of the Egyptians, to the buba and soro of the Yoruba, babbanriga and jalabia of the Hausa, the Twarb of the Arabs, the bead coverings of the Binis, one would see that clothing are more than just what we wear, they really determine who we are. The transformation to the modern fashion world of sophisticated clothing, where machines cut to precision, and machines sow instead of hands has not c...