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ANOTHER TURN

A chill ran through me and I knew immediately I’ve messed up. I didn’t expect Stella in her stupidity and wickedness to ever call her and tell her anything about me. I wasn’t going to call Stella again so I decided from that day I wouldn’t lie to Chidinma again. The apologies took a day and we were good to go. We lived happily and cautiously till marriage and also now.   Before this escapade of Diana, I’ve only been very close to cheating and I get home to tell her how I fought temptations all the times and I overcame, but now I’ve been defeated. A regret feeling started taking over my mind. I felt like praying to ask God for forgiveness. The spirit was willing but the flesh was so weak. I tried to sleep but the thoughts of Diana and the sweetness of the sex kept coming to my mind again. Then I knew if I don’t tell my wife when she comes back I might likely do it again. I called Musa to go buy some things and put in the house. The market has always been his special...

STILL TURNING TO MY WIFE.

Paul I said fluently and the line went off. I knew I have lied, if it would have consequences I don’t know. We spent less than ten minutes at the restaurant before leaving and once again freedom was attained, let’s play! Our thoughts most times are very wrong. The same naïve girl I saw like an hour ago was going to be the woman I worship for the rest of my life. I got home late and I forgot I had a new girlfriend.  A phone call from Humphrey brought back the reality. I gave him a gist on what happened earlier today and we both laughed about it. The humor ended with ‘brother, keep this one”. With a nod as if he could see me I said yeah.   I was confused all I needed was rest of mind from the desperate housewives I’ve been dating.   So Chidinma would be the liberator hmmm, let’s see. In the beginning of every relationship, men tend to be very romantic. Some early signs that may look great also are endless compliments and gifts. I added one...

TURNING TO MY WIFE CHIDINMA

It was some years back and I just was done with my service. Met many ladies but wasn’t just down for anyone. The pressure wasn’t there at all to get married. I felt the bachelorhood was going to last forever. One faithful day, I walked into a restaurant and saw a lady sitting alone. Naivety was written all over her face. I felt the champion mode of mine again. Even though I lacked everything; my words are superb. I asked for a seat next to her and placed an order for my meal. She accepted just like that.     It was alacarte so I knew we had time to talk. I asked for her name and she answered Agatha. What a lovely name I responded as if I could have said otherwise. I added to her orders to prolong our stay. Asked also what her native name was and she said Chidinma. I prefer that I told her and the flow of conversation became perfect. This would be easy for me I thought. We continued into what do you do and where do you stay. She was studying law and just resumed th...

rejuvenate

Good morning my friends and it’s a new month! New Year’s resolutions ..... many of us make them, and almost as many of us break them. Whether we quietly yield to temptation, brazenly throw resolutions out the window, or simply forget about our well-intended promises to ourselves, New Year’s resolutions tend to fail for one simple reason–a year is a very long time. The idea behind this monthly resolution is to experiment with your life. Rather than setting vague (what does “be healthier” really mean, anyway?) or potentially unrealistic (if only we had time to go for a walk or run every day) goals at the outset of a new year, the monthly resolution pushes you to set a more specific, measurable goal at the beginning of each month. How much can you save this month? You need to buy a TV. You want to cut down late night food. How much weight can you lose? Sincerely if you can’t succeed in thirty days the year is a fallacy. Some resolutions will fit seamlessl...