Wolfax Diaries

Dear Timi,             Today marks exactly 12 years we have been dating. I don’t want any of those fake promises from you any longer that’s the reason I’m sending this letter ahead before I see you. I’m not getting any younger and you know it. The styles that used to fascinate you now cause me muscle pull. Baby I still love you like the first day but I need to write this apology for settlement before I reach menopause. My fecundity level has reduced drastically and you know it would be unfair for any man apart from you to pay my bride price. You have used the part of me that is useful thus I can’t be handed over to another man apart from you. 13 abortions in 12 years and here we are still deliberating on a future we’re practically living to me. What else can a woman ask for from a man who has seen the best of you? Let us get married. If all you need is to still be sleeping around …… sleep. What are you really doing awake...

Many of us have gotten it wrong. Today is not my birthday. It’s really Jesus’ birthday in remembrance, thus we are not expected to do anything outside the context of the celebrant. I spoke with Him on behalf of all our friends at Wolfax diaries and this was the simple message.  Tell them I still love them as much as I loved them from the beginning. Tell them I bring good tidings into their lives whenever they turn to me, tell them I’ll never leave nor forsake them, tell them I gave myself up so that we might live forever. Tell them it might look just like a child was born but in reality a SON was given. A SON that remove burdens, and destroy yokes. The reason for the season. Christ is inviting you to His banquet and I guess you won’t say no. Just for a minute think of it; how creator entered into his creation, born in a manger, beaten and stripped by an earthly army. He did all that for us to have life and have it abundantly. He wants to have full control ove...

I am constrained to write this letter to you because I feel a little less of the feelings I used to feel for you before. I am a man willing to leave and I know you are a woman of options. The last eight months has been mixed with feelings of heaven on earth and on the other hand hell on earth. A blessing in disguise I thought until I discovered it a curse in its fullness. I have never done this before but for you I’ll break all rules. You are a scar on my mind. Never will I forgive nor forget you. A shame I can’t wipe off and an infamy I will remember till adulthood. If I was wrong in all these I would have been lenient and understanding, but in all truth I wish you never existed in my life.  Sarah Bells a name I would never forget. A lady not just like any other lady. You are an experience and adventure that characterized my entirety for a period of 240 days. A joy I can’t explain; a fulfillment in wrongs, and a mistake I wished I could make again. The gains seem much but...

Quest for better living sometimes leave us a little apart from our spouses. The truth lies in the fact that we spoil so many things than build. What is a long distant relationship? The fact that your partner travelled for a month doesn't make it long distant. And the fact he stays in Lagos and you in Abuja doesn't make it long distant. The reality is the time you spend apart. Sometimes bank workers and construction workers keep long distant relationships without knowing it. There is one thing about being in a relationship and dealing with the normal problems in person, but it’s something else entirely when there is distance between you two. Most of your problems will not occur because of normal boyfriend/girlfriend issues. The fact that you guys can’t see each other often will prove to be a problem. Most of the time, your arguments will deal with distance rather than real relationship issues. This will prove to be taxing on the mind and it is extra stress that can be avoided...

Don’t fool yourself things would improve after marriage; many people carry a lot of baggage from their relationships into marriage. The expectations would be cut short with extreme misbehaviors and you wonder if you married the same woman. People have this need to change the other person into the type of person they think would be right for them. Marriage changes everything. Do not fool yourself into thinking that you can change her, or diminish this trait, rather you change for your woman.  Sincerely, relativity comes to play when we talk about a valued practice as great as marriage. Thus this writing is predominantly thinking about an African marriage. What are the traits a lady must possess for her to be the right one. Wolfax diaries went all out again gathering all the information to know the mind of men about settling down with the right person. We filtered the wrongly impressed opinions of some who believe a lady should be a sex tool or others that believe she is ...